Family photos are more than just pictures. They’re little time capsules—snapshots of this moment in your life that you’ll look back on years from now. Whether it’s the way your toddler clings to your leg, the shy smile of your teenager, or the laughter shared between siblings, these are the details that make your family yours.
I know that planning a family photoshoot can feel overwhelming—what to wear, whether the kids will cooperate, and all the other little worries that come up. But I want you to know that it’s not about perfection. It’s about capturing the love and connection that already exists within your family.
Here’s how to prepare so that your session feels easy, enjoyable, and most importantly—authentically you.
1. Embrace the Imperfections
I want to take the pressure off right away: you don’t need to be perfect. Kids will be kids. Someone might have a hair out of place. A little dirt on a toddler’s hand? Totally normal. Some of the most beautiful, heartwarming images come from the in-between moments—when your child wraps their arms around you unexpectedly, when you share a quiet glance with your partner, or when everyone bursts into laughter because your dog just knocked someone over.
So take a deep breath and trust that the magic will happen.
2. Choose Comfortable, Coordinated Clothing (Not Matchy-Matchy!)
When picking outfits, aim for coordinated, not identical. Soft, neutral tones or earthy colors tend to photograph beautifully, and layers or subtle textures can add depth. Most importantly—choose clothing that makes you feel comfortable and confident.
For kids, avoid anything too fussy or restrictive. If they don’t like what they’re wearing, they’ll let us know (and not in a quiet way!).
If you’re unsure, I’m happy to help with outfit guidance. Feel free to send me photos, and I’ll offer suggestions!
3. Let the Kids Be Themselves
If you have little ones, the best thing you can do is let them be kids. I don’t expect them to sit still and smile on command. Some of the sweetest photos come from them exploring, playing, and interacting naturally.
Before the session, let them know this is going to be fun—not something they have to “perform” for. I’ll gently guide them when needed, but I also love capturing their personalities as they are.
And if meltdowns happen? We roll with it. I promise, we’ll still get beautiful photos.
4. Plan for Connection, Not Just Poses
I always take a few classic posed shots, but the real magic happens when you relax into each other. Hold hands, whisper inside jokes, snuggle your kids close. These little moments create the most honest and heartfelt images.
So instead of thinking about “posing,” think about interacting. I might have you walk together, play a game, or simply hold your child while they giggle into your shoulder. These moments tell the real story of your family.
5. Make It a Stress-Free Experience
The best way to set the tone for your session is to make the whole day feel relaxed. Give yourself plenty of time to get ready so no one feels rushed. If you have little ones, bring a favorite snack or small comfort item just in case.
And above all, keep expectations flexible. Not every moment will go exactly as planned, and that’s okay. Some of the most cherished photos come from the unexpected.
6. Trust the Process
I know it can feel vulnerable being in front of the camera. But I want you to know; I see you. I see the love in the way you reach for your child’s hand. The way your partner looks at you when you aren’t paying attention. The laughter, the silliness, the quiet moments in between.
You don’t need to “do” anything. Just show up as you, and I’ll take care of the rest.
By the end of our session, my hope is that you leave feeling even more connected to your family than when we started. And when you look at your photos, I hope you see not just what you looked like, but how deeply you love each other.
If you have any questions or want to book a session, I’d love to chat. Let’s create something beautiful together.
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